Ultimate Pleasure Taster Class – 26th January

Sex education workshop… are you curious?

Guess who’s back? 


This is my first class of the year to perk you up and take away those January blues with a bit of blue.


If you’ve been before, come along again as those of you regulars know I always add new content and have new products to demo. If you’ve been before it’s £10.00 if not it’s just £20.00 for 2 hours of entertainment and education, and there are only 10 spaces available.


This event is for women and gay men of all ages (20-70 plus) both single and in relationships and all levels of experience.


A little bit about me… I’ve been in the sex industry for over 20 years and my mission for this workshop is to empower men and women, so that in our modern world they embrace their sexuality, feel confident in the bedroom and make talking about sex comfortable for everyone. From the feedback I have received so far, I’m pleased to report that I am achieving that, even with the most shyest and prudish 😉


I am currently featured as one of the Sexperts on Channel 5’s Sex Pod. As a sexpert I’ve sat alongside Rylan Clark on Big Brothers Bit on the Side, and my new book The Great British Sexpert’s Guide to Pleasing Your Men – 101 Sex Tips, is out now.


Think Ann Summers party, but without the tackiness. My ladies events are classy, educational and lots of fun.


Some of the things you will learn are:

  • masturbation techniques for him and her 
  • the art of edging to give enhance orgasm 
  • Professional blow and hand job techniques to drive him wild
  • how to use lube to enhance foreplay for you and him
  • how to use mild bondage techniques to tantalise, tease and elongate foreplay whilst you explore your partner from top to toe

Guests range from students, to business owners and retired, some single some in relationships and some married, so my events really are for everyone – regardless of experience.

For more details and to secure your place email me  Rebecca@rebeccadakin.com , and I’ll send you further information.

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I talk BDSM and kinky sex with Calum McSwiggan

I talk sex with Calum McSwiggan

Last night I was invited to be a guest at Fubar radio for the You Tube sensation Ewan McSwiggan’s show. You can catch it here if you missed it… Calum McSwiggan show


He was eager to find out all about what my work entails and he was especially interested in my sex workshops the kinky devil 😉 I have 3 spaces left for my next class on the 26th January, contact me for more details. I cover bondage and masturbation techniques and much more, and introduce the latest in sex toys and accessories.


Calum wanted to ask me about how to bring up the subject of kinky sex with a new partner or one night stand. Good sex is all about communication, connection, chemistry and respecting your partner, so the best way to find out is to just ask . You don’t need to spend half an hour delving into the nuances of BDSM and bukkake however in between the kissing, foreplay and “tell me what you like”… you can drop in a few subtle questions to find out if they like a bit of kink…


Here’s 5 questions to ask to subtly find out if your partner likes a bit of kink…


1. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done sexually?
2. Have you ever been tied up/ blindfolded/ spanked?
3. Do you believe there is a fine line between pleasure and pain?
4. Have you ever heard of Fetlife? (A website community for all kinks)
5. What’s one of your sexual fantasies?


There are all sorts of kink not just BDSM, and whatever your fetish or fantasy is you can guarantee you won’t be the only one. Check out Fetlife to discover yours!


Check out my boutique for bondage accessories or contact me directly for advice on which to try 😉


My bondage tape is great fun for those who want to begin experimenting with blindfolding and tying up. It’s not sticky so you can use it anywhere on your face and body, it sticks to itself so it can be wrapped around and used for all sorts of fun! 

Tie and tease with bondage tape

Get yours here for just £5.99! : http://www.thegreatbritishsexpert.co.uk/product/bondage-tape/


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Rare Opportunity Today to do something that will make you feel amazing…

If you’re facing some challenges in your life right now, and are struggling physically and emotionally may I recommend you take the opportunity today or tomorrow to go and see this wonderful lady at East Bridgford Hill Hall in Nottingham


I had the most wonderful experience with her after a difficult relationship break up, and she gave me an enormous sense of well being and relief. Hence why I will never cease to sing the praises of this lady. This incredible lady is the one organising the Bali retreat I will be embarking on next month.

She’s over from Sweden and only here until tomorrow afternoon. If you’re interested to see her send me a an email or give me a call.

Sophia Magdelena
Sophia Magdelena



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Notts TV 6.30 Show tonight

I’m talking dating, mating and relating on Notts TV 6.30 show. What to do for nights in, nights out, and romantic gifts on Valentines day. No I didn’t try and plug any sex toys hehehe

Watch it or catch up on Demand here: https://nottstv.com/


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Santa’s naughty list – Adult gift ideas & Stocking Fillers

If you’re over 18 then the only list you wanna be on this Christmas is Santa’s naughty list!

I’ve been gathering and testing new products this week for my boutique, and there’s some very exciting new toys and sexy stuff.

Here are my 12 days of Christmas, 12 gift ideas for those who enjoy some adult fun.

Christmas is an extremely stressful time of year, so it is super important to make sure that you keep up the intimacy, flirting and sex going when you get the opportunity. Sex is a stress buster! And if you’re single this Christmas then there is no reason why you shouldn’t be having lots of fun too 😉

If you want to get your hands on any of the products I have mentioned in the video then contact me today as i’m back at the warehouse Thursday 15th picking up more orders.

Vibrators, books, games, love potions, lubes and bondage bits have all made my top 12 naughty gift ideas. Watch the video to find out more and find out about your special Christmas offer 🙂


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Giveaway – Free Signed Book Copies 101 Sex Tips & Ways to Please Your Man

The time has come! Finally my new sex tips book is out and available to buy from my Sexpert Boutique (and all good book shops :). However you may want to get your hands on a free one… and why wouldn’t you??

I’m giving away 5 signed copies, watch my video to find out what you need to do to be one of those 5 lucky people to get their hands on the very first copies of my book!

I’ve been sharing my tips and sex advice for years,  via my first book The Girlfriend Experience, some via my blog and social media however I have now collated my tips on sexually pleasing men in one book. This book is all about how to please your man, can you guess what my next one will be? I haven’t forgotten you ladies don’t worry. I know men need guidance too on how to please women.

Inspired by The Great British Bake Off GBBO I mix cake, sex and tea, in this sex tips book with a difference.


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Condom Challenge

Safe sex is of paramount importance, so I decided to jump on the bandwagon with the condom challenge giving it my own unique twist to try and reach the masses and spread the word. Never go in without a Skin!

Men and women carrying condoms and using them for sex, shows that they are educated and sexually mature enough to know the importance of not only avoiding unwanted pregnancy but also minimising the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. It is neither the responsibility of the man or woman to carry condoms it’s the responsibility of everyone engaging in sex.

I was a promiscuous young teenager who basically couldn’t be bothered to use condoms, something feel a little sad about now at 40 years old having borne no children. My lack of fertility could be due to the fact that for 5 years from the age of 15, I engaged in sex with multiple partners, unprotected and repeatedly went to the clinic to find that I was constantly contracting Chlamydia. Chlamydia is known to affect fertility and can make you infertile, and I knew that yet thought like many, that it wouldn’t happen to me. This might not seem that big a deal when you are younger, however trust me, in 10/20 years time you may think differently.

I didn’t want guys to reject me, so never suggested using condoms unless they did. I foolishly put their gratification, and my need for acceptance, attention and ‘love’, above my wellbeing. It was not a smart thing to do.

Check out my video and see how quickly I can put a condom on with my mouth! There is no excuse for it killing the moment, and if he doesn’t want you to wear one, then he doesn’t care about you. Fact!

If you like the video please share it so I can help spread the word about the importance of safe sex.


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I’m Nominated for Sex Educator Of The Year Award

This year I’m excited to announce I have been nominated for an award at the erotic show of the year Sexhibition. I’m nominated for Sex Educator of the Year alongside some pretty awesome people….

……Alix Fox (we’ve recently connected, however not had the opportunity to meet – yet), Tracey Cox whom I have worked with on ITV’s The Other Side, Rachel McCoy and Domininc Masters whom I have never met but know they are respected in the industry, and last by no means least Goedele Liekens, a lady I very much admire for the sex education work she did in a UK school, which was documented on Channel 4.

I strongly believe we need to educate everyone about sex, not just young people, there are many adults that need guidance and understanding in this area. We should all be learning about our bodies and sex in a responsible, informative and fully educational way, by not offering this we are encouraging young people to watch porn and be exposed to inappropriate and in some instances extreme and niche sexual material for over 18’s on the internet. It’s the lack of sex education in schools that is causing the rise in underage pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

My mission is to start speaking in schools, and educate young people, so that they can make the right choices, and not use sex as a way to make them feel acceptable, loved, confident, and to encourage them to engage in sex only when they are ready without giving in to peer pressure and at a pace that is comfortable for them with someone who cares about their well being.

This video is a very popular video I did at last years Sexhibition, highlighting why porn is not sex education, not real and not what young people should be attempting to recreate in their sexual relationships. I speak to Rebecca More, Linsey Dawn McKensie, Ella Hughes, Daisy Rock and Zara Du Rose to name but a few of the beautiful, intelligent ladies I spoke to in the porn industry keen to share their thoughts on teenagers watching porn.

If you like my values and support my work, I would love you to consider voting for me for this award, which would mean such a lot to me, however we are all deserved nominees so all votes are appreciated 🙂 Thank you.

Here’s the link to vote…


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I’ll be Talking Online Dating Profiles with Notts T.V

Online dating is the way forwards in 2016.  So tune in tomorrow (27th April) to Notts TV to hear my tips on do’s and don’t for creating the perfect online dating profiles and my tips for making contact online! I’ll be there from 6.15-6.45 pm and the show is live. If you can get the Channel on Freeview I hope you enjoy. If you miss it or can’t get the channel you can find more tips on creating the perfect online dating profiles here:


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First Date Make Up Demonstration – 12 minute make under

Should you be wearing your stencil brows, glamour puss smokey eye’s with liquid liners, false eye lashes and plump red lipstick on your first date? Personally I think not.

Keep it simple and keep it natural, regardless of what you are doing on your date. He/she wants to know that wheat they are going to get is what they see on the tin so to speak. Whilst guys might appreciate heavly made up girls on a night out, if you ask them, what they really prefer is a natural look. Fact.

They want to see an idea of what you are going to look like first thing in a morning after a night of rumpy pumpy. If you wear those big heavy brows, false lashes and dark eyes and strip it all off, he/she’ll be half scared to death in the morning wondering if he/she’s with the same girl!

If they aren’t attracted to you without make up then what is the point? They need to be attracted to you with and without, so find out at the start.

Regardless of your complexion, less is more, and the more natural your make up, the more you will be attractive to your date. Check out my make up demonstration, where I show you how to create a natural look make up in just 12 minutes.

You can find more dating advice here: Top 10 Tips for a First Date


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