Break up January is here. Is your relationship safe?

Breakup January Divorce

Bitterly cold temperatures aren’t the only thing frosty about January and February. For many New Year = new partner! January is widely known as the “break-up” month because in relationships and marriages more couples split up then than at any other time of the year.

In particular divorce solicitors have named 3rd January divorce day and it is the first two months of the year that are their most busiest.

So how does one make sure that their relationship doesn’t end up as one of New Years fatalities?

The answer is keeping that connection and making sure the intimacy side of the relationship hasn’t waned after the busyness of Christmas and New Year.

That’s where I come in. I have been in the sex industry for over 20 years, 10 of those were spent working as an escort, during which time I learnt a lot about sexually pleasing both men and women. I am the author of two books The Girlfriend Experience and 101 Sex Tips.

5 Intimacy Tips for keeping things hot when the temperatures drop

1. Always make time for cuddles. All that body heat will make you feel warm and fuzzy
2. Flirt with your partner – it will make you both feel good
3. Go to bed when the kids go to bed or if you don’t have any take the opportunity for an early night and keep warm under the covers getting up to mischief
4. Massage warms your body up for both parties. Try a body to body massage with some warm massage candle oil
5. Lots of passionate kissing will keep the desire burning

There are more of my tips in my 101 Sex Tips book, and I’m also running a workshop on the 26th January in Nottingham where I will be teaching a small group of 10 women a variety of ‘tricks of the sex trade’ and sexual advice and tips on how to keep things spicy in the bedroom.

Contact me today to secure your place it’s just £20.00 for a 2 hour workshop.

Some of the things I teach with my flipchart and pointer are…

 *   Mild Bondage techniques designed to enhance and elongate foreplay
 *   Tips on masturbation for her and him
 *   Empowerment in the bedroom
 *   How to use sensory play to excite and tease

Quotes from ladies that have attended my classes:

“Think of an Ann Summers party but classy and educational as well as fun”

“Every modern, independent woman should attend one of Rebecca’s events which empower women of all ages”

“I’m shy and prudish and was very unsure what to expect however Rebecca completely put me at ease and made the subject of sex completely comfortable, accessible and fun”

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Are we failing the new generation of children and young adults with the lack of factual information about sex, intimacy and relationships? In my opinion, absolutely! 

Please call into the show or tweet me @lbc @gbsexpert with your questions and opinions. 

Children are being educated by porn as young as 8 years old. We need to counteract the message they are receiving about sex from porn.

Aside from teaching children about their bodies and those of the opposite sex and  how to embrace and love their bodies instead of wanting to change or ‘enhance’ them, there’s also gender, sexuality issues, and and the bullying that can happen with people that don’t fit what many people view as socially acceptable. 

For me sex education it’s part of a much bigger picture – it’s about self esteem, self worth, confidence building, recognising Body dysmorphia and other mental health conditions that can affect how people view themselves and how they form relationships.

Also the education should be about looking at what constitutes as a healthy relationship, and how to avoid toxic relationships and noticing the signs of mental and physical abuse. 

There is no reason why Sex education in this wider scope can’t be brought into primary schools. 

Catch the show live stream here: 

http://www.lbc.co.uk/radio/presenters/lucy-beresford/

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Rare Opportunity Today to do something that will make you feel amazing…

If you’re facing some challenges in your life right now, and are struggling physically and emotionally may I recommend you take the opportunity today or tomorrow to go and see this wonderful lady at East Bridgford Hill Hall in Nottingham

https://www.facebook.com/Awakening-the-Sacred-Feminine-141…/

I had the most wonderful experience with her after a difficult relationship break up, and she gave me an enormous sense of well being and relief. Hence why I will never cease to sing the praises of this lady. This incredible lady is the one organising the Bali retreat I will be embarking on next month.

She’s over from Sweden and only here until tomorrow afternoon. If you’re interested to see her send me a an email or give me a call.

Sophia Magdelena
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International Womens Day

Regardless of gender we all have both Masculine and Feminine energy and it’s important that we understand and utilise both to enable us to experience true self acceptance, love and lasting happiness. In a world where many women can have it all – the successful career, family and social life, and manage or choose to become single mothers some running businesses or working at the same time, we have really honed our masculine side however the Feminine energy is getting lost.

The Divine Feminine is all about embracing and nurturing our female energy. However what is it and how do we do that?

Divine Feminine energy represents these aspects within the universe: life, renewal, birth, openness, restoration, love, nurturing, insight, wisdom, intuition, understanding, healing, receptivity, motherhood, the moon, sensuality and harmony. We need to connect to all those areas within ourselves to experience and utilise our Divine Feminine.

Here are 10 ways to connect with your Divine Feminine:

  1. Explore perception of womanhood in your culture and from your personal experience
  2. Cultivate love, compassion, forgiveness and openness towards self and others
  3. Meditate specifically to connect with your Divine Feminine. There are various meditations on You Tube for you to try
  4. Embrace, love and accept your body wholly and completely
  5. Explore if you have any resistance to being female on a spiritual, physical and mental level and with regards to how societies beliefs and any social conditioning
  6. Listen to your emotions, experience them and examine them. Get in touch with your intuition. Close down external distractions designed to numb you. For example T.V.
  7. Examine your perception of motherhood and your relationship with your mother. If there is resentment and anger there this will block your Feminine energy. Total forgiveness is essential and compassion helps facilitate this.
  8. Explore your sensuality – know your body get in tune with it. Know how you like to be touched. Connect intimately in mind and body with yourself and your partner. Communicate, and explore without shame or guilt.
  9. Collaborate with other women professionally and personally. Unite and explore how you can help each other grow.
  10. Get in touch with your creative side – whether it is through art, dance or written word


Our Divine energy does not need to be cultivated or created it is the core of our very being it’s just lost and obscured by negative thoughts, beliefs, actions and a lack of awareness.

To allow it to flourish we need to let go of all the negative beliefs and emotions attached to womanhood only then can we be truly free. It’s time to embrace our Divine Feminine and invite it to shine out of every pore of our being!

If you’re interested to find out more then there is an incredible, inspirational woman championing this mission Sophia Magdelena she is based in Sweden however arranges workshops and retreats worldwide. I will be joining her in Bali next month to explore all of the above and rid myself of any blockages. There are still a few spaces left for anyone interested in this empowering life transforming journey, so if you want to know more get in touch with me today 🙂

Wishing all women a very happy International Women’s Day. You are all loved and stronger than you know xo

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X Rated Ladies Night 2nd March – Ladies contact me today to secure your place

What started as an intimate group of ladies at my house has now moved to a full blown event to accomodate all the ladies wanting to come. The places are limited. The next one is to be held in Nottingham this Thursday 2nd March 7.30-9.30 pm. Only 9 spaces left!

If you’re interested to find out more, send me an email rebecca@rebeccadakin.com

I will also be demonstrating the full range of Satisfyers, the Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro Penguin, Satisfyer Pro Delux and the Satisfyer Pro 2. Ladies you do not want to miss this. Award winning breakthrough clitoral stimulators using pressure air. Multiple orgasms guarenteed 😉

Are you curious?
Are you curious?

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Notts TV 6.30 Show tonight

I’m talking dating, mating and relating on Notts TV 6.30 show. What to do for nights in, nights out, and romantic gifts on Valentines day. No I didn’t try and plug any sex toys hehehe

Watch it or catch up on Demand here: https://nottstv.com/

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New Series of Sex Pod starts weekly tonight – 5 Star 10pm or catch it online

Tonight myself and other Sex Experts face a new batch of youngsters and as we give them open and frank sex advice and answer all their questions about sex. If you haven’t seen it yet, then do have a watch. It’s aimed at 18-25 year olds and covers both straight and gay/lesbian sex advice, however everyone can learn something. There are explicit sex demonstrations (check out the video here for an idea of what to expect featuring he stunning Chloe Davis) so you actually get to see our advice in action 😉 This is a ground breaking sex education show like no other. If you miss it you can catch up online here: http://www.channel5.com/show/sex-pod

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Awakening True Women Power: Opportunity to join me on a transformational journey to Bali

Awakening the sacred Feminine
Awakening the sacred Feminine

2017 is an exciting year for transformational and heightened levels of love.

Lets make 2017 all about ‘Woman Power’… Are you ready to receive the gift of love? Self-unconditional love?

 

It’s time for you to give yourself and your loved ones the one gift that will bring lasting peace, tranquility, love and happiness.

As women we often give selflessly to others often neglecting our own physical and emotional needs, and by doing so we actually deprive our loved ones!

To be able to give we need to be able to equally receive love, and it’s by doing that we create harmony, acceptance and peace in others and ourselves.

Perhaps you are a woman who is in a relationship that you know isn’t going anywhere, but you feel you don’t have the confidence to leave, even though you know you are not happy and/or the relationship is toxic.

It could be that you are in a wonderful relationship and may have a family however their feels like there is something missing, and you’re just not quite sure what, because on paper you ‘have it all’.

Maybe you’re a confident, independent woman who is focused on your career and goals however unlucky in love *raises hand* – yes even those of us in the relationship sector find ourselves busy sorting everyone else’s relationship out and neglecting our own.

From working in the industry I know that there are some ‘relationship with self’ blockages that I personally need clearing.

Maybe you’re lost in your work, love, home life and can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, and are seeking to feel content and happy and confident to make decisions and create opportunities that will help you move forwards in 2017.

 

2017 for me is going to be about exploring my Divine Feminine power and utilizing it for the benefit of my loved ones and myself.

It is going to be my gift to my loved ones and myself.

Bali Beach life
Bali Beach life

 

This year I am going on an exciting journey to Bali with the wonderful Sophia Magdelena to embrace and rejoice my feminine power. Will you join me on this transformational journey to Awaken the Sacred Feminine?

In a nutshell within a Safe and Sacred space, Sophia supports and guides you through a journey of building Trust, Intimacy, in Giving and Receiving Love Unconditionally and in choosing new paradigms of Sacred Relationships.

Each day in Bali brings the Body, the Spirit and the Conscious Mind into alignment with Movement, Meditation, and two workshop sessions a day with time to integrate and share what arises in sacred sharing circles.

We celebrate within the transformation of all negative beliefs into new frequencies of Love and Acceptance, Affirming the Truth of the Divine Feminine Essence.

And in doing so we clear, release judgements, and let go of false conditioned beliefs and emotions, giving us a feeling a lightness and freedom.

This allows us to be the true powerful creative being that we are, with unlimited possibilities and choices.

It’s so important to invest in our mental health and wellbeing. Statistics show that one in 3 people are affected by some kind of mental illness whether it’s stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, O.C.D., B.D.D., panic attacks, with many people undiagnosed and/or in denial.

In this busy stressful time of technology and fast living, this is the ultimate experience in self-development, guaranteed to give you an enormous sense of well-being.

Bali retreat

We can all have a holiday, which acts as a temporary fix, however it doesn’t bring lasting happiness it just offers temporary respite. Ultimately we are all looking for lasting happiness and this is how powerful and transformational this retreat in Bali is…. I’m ready, are you?

 

I’ll be doing Vlogs and more social media in the coming months so keep a look out. And don’t hesitate to contact me or Sophia if you have any questions at all.

Dates for your diary are: 11th-24th April. I would love you to join me 🙂 Sign into Facebook to see full details of the event here: Awakening True Women Power

You can find out more about Sophia Magdelena here: https://www.facebook.com/Awakening-the-Sacred-Feminine-1415885638704521/

Next week I will be following up this blog with a video, so keep a look out… This amazing woman has ignited a spark in me and I can’t wait to share my journey with you 🙂

The radiant Sophia Magdelena
Sophia Magdelena

 

 

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