Tonight myself and other Sex Experts face a new batch of youngsters and as we give them open and frank sex advice and answer all their questions about sex. If you haven’t seen it yet, then do have a watch. It’s aimed at 18-25 year olds and covers both straight and gay/lesbian sex advice, however everyone can learn something. There are explicit sex demonstrations (check out the video here for an idea of what to expect featuring he stunning Chloe Davis) so you actually get to see our advice in action 😉 This is a ground breaking sex education show like no other. If you miss it you can catch up online here: http://www.channel5.com/show/sex-pod
2017 is an exciting year for transformational and heightened levels of love.
Lets make 2017 all about ‘Woman Power’… Are you ready to receive the gift of love? Self-unconditional love?
It’s time for you to give yourself and your loved ones the one gift that will bring lasting peace, tranquility, love and happiness.
As women we often give selflessly to others often neglecting our own physical and emotional needs, and by doing so we actually deprive our loved ones!
To be able to give we need to be able to equally receive love, and it’s by doing that we create harmony, acceptance and peace in others and ourselves.
Perhaps you are a woman who is in a relationship that you know isn’t going anywhere, but you feel you don’t have the confidence to leave, even though you know you are not happy and/or the relationship is toxic.
It could be that you are in a wonderful relationship and may have a family however their feels like there is something missing, and you’re just not quite sure what, because on paper you ‘have it all’.
Maybe you’re a confident, independent woman who is focused on your career and goals however unlucky in love *raises hand* – yes even those of us in the relationship sector find ourselves busy sorting everyone else’s relationship out and neglecting our own.
From working in the industry I know that there are some ‘relationship with self’ blockages that I personally need clearing.
Maybe you’re lost in your work, love, home life and can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, and are seeking to feel content and happy and confident to make decisions and create opportunities that will help you move forwards in 2017.
2017 for me is going to be about exploring my Divine Feminine power and utilizing it for the benefit of my loved ones and myself.
It is going to be my gift to my loved ones and myself.
This year I am going on an exciting journey to Bali with the wonderful Sophia Magdelena to embrace and rejoice my feminine power. Will you join me on this transformational journey to Awaken the Sacred Feminine?
In a nutshell within a Safe and Sacred space, Sophia supports and guides you through a journey of building Trust, Intimacy, in Giving and Receiving Love Unconditionally and in choosing new paradigms of Sacred Relationships.
Each day in Bali brings the Body, the Spirit and the Conscious Mind into alignment with Movement, Meditation, and two workshop sessions a day with time to integrate and share what arises in sacred sharing circles.
We celebrate within the transformation of all negative beliefs into new frequencies of Love and Acceptance, Affirming the Truth of the Divine Feminine Essence.
And in doing so we clear, release judgements, and let go of false conditioned beliefs and emotions, giving us a feeling a lightness and freedom.
This allows us to be the true powerful creative being that we are, with unlimited possibilities and choices.
It’s so important to invest in our mental health and wellbeing. Statistics show that one in 3 people are affected by some kind of mental illness whether it’s stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, O.C.D., B.D.D., panic attacks, with many people undiagnosed and/or in denial.
In this busy stressful time of technology and fast living, this is the ultimate experience in self-development, guaranteed to give you an enormous sense of well-being.
We can all have a holiday, which acts as a temporary fix, however it doesn’t bring lasting happiness it just offers temporary respite. Ultimately we are all looking for lasting happiness and this is how powerful and transformational this retreat in Bali is…. I’m ready, are you?
I’ll be doing Vlogs and more social media in the coming months so keep a look out. And don’t hesitate to contact me or Sophia if you have any questions at all.
Dates for your diary are: 11th-24th April. I would love you to join me 🙂 Sign into Facebook to see full details of the event here: Awakening True Women Power
You can find out more about Sophia Magdelena here: https://www.facebook.com/Awakening-the-Sacred-Feminine-1415885638704521/
Next week I will be following up this blog with a video, so keep a look out… This amazing woman has ignited a spark in me and I can’t wait to share my journey with you 🙂
If you’re over 18 then the only list you wanna be on this Christmas is Santa’s naughty list!
I’ve been gathering and testing new products this week for my boutique, and there’s some very exciting new toys and sexy stuff.
Here are my 12 days of Christmas, 12 gift ideas for those who enjoy some adult fun.
Christmas is an extremely stressful time of year, so it is super important to make sure that you keep up the intimacy, flirting and sex going when you get the opportunity. Sex is a stress buster! And if you’re single this Christmas then there is no reason why you shouldn’t be having lots of fun too 😉
If you want to get your hands on any of the products I have mentioned in the video then contact me today as i’m back at the warehouse Thursday 15th picking up more orders.
Vibrators, books, games, love potions, lubes and bondage bits have all made my top 12 naughty gift ideas. Watch the video to find out more and find out about your special Christmas offer 🙂
With the success of Sex Pod’s initial series I have since filmed 2 more. The celeb version (the third series) is being shown before the second on, and it will be on Channel 5 in February, so I’ll keep you updated 🙂
This series we covered subjects including –
- How many sexual partners is it acceptable to have
- The dangers of designer vaginas
- Fanny farts (yes again 🙂
- Anal sex
- Prostate massage
- Oral sex tips if you’re fellas got a big un
- Pleasure benefits from a smaller fella
If you missed the first series you can catch it here: http://www.channel5.com/show/sex-pod
Ho ho ho 😉 Calling all the ladies on Santas naughty list!!
Due to popular demand I’m doing a December Masterclass just in time for Christmas. What better gift you can give him than the gift of pleasure 😉
I have the usual 10 spaces available for my X Rated night.
Send me a message today with your email address and I’ll send you full details of the event to be held on Sunday the 11th December.
Here’s some of the feedback from my previous nights –
‘I think everyone would be at ease in your classes’ Louise
‘I wasn’t sure what to expect however I am so glad I came I wasn’t expecting for it to be so much fun’ Keeley
‘I was apprehensive being quite a shy person and not knowing anyone (after the friend that invited me bailed out!), however you put me at ease straight away, and everyone was so friendly’ Emma
‘Fun, interesting and classy!’ Stacey
This class is for those who are experienced and want some pro tips to try, those with some experience who want to try new techniques and refine their existing technique, and for the complete novice, who wants to start experimenting.
The class is fun, informative and educational and is packed with content. I will have my flip chart to take you through things step by step.
Whatever your level you will learn something new to try at home.
Remember I have only 10 spaces per class and they book out fast so register your interest today!
Check out this weeks Reveal for my Sexpert advice on Katie Price and Kieran Haylers relationship.
Infidelity is challenging for any relationship, however add in being betrayed by your two best friends and finding out your partner has a sex addiction, and that infidelity is magnified to a level to cause maximum emotional turmoil.
It’s not surprising that Katie and Kieran’s relationship hasn’t fully recovered from both of these challenging situations. A healthy relationship is based on trust, and without that you are left with various levels of a toxic relationship. By toxic I mean one that is emotionally damaging to everyone in it.
Kieran is still being punished for his behaviour, (however lets remember that most couples wouldn’t survive this level of betrayal). Katie is a fighter and she wants to fix things and make them right, she doesn’t want another relationship to fail. This is a feeling myself and many will relate to, especially those like Katie who are very successful in so many other areas of their lives.
The power balance has always been out of synch with Katie playing the dominant role from the beginning (which unconsciously many successful women do), and guys can feel intimidated and emasculated by this. His sex addiction and messing around with her best friends gave him a feeling of being in control, feeling powerful whilst offering a temporary release from the pressure of trying to live up to the percieved expectations of Katie and trying to maintain some of his masculinity.
Neither party is getting their needs met currently, so to move forwards they have to communicate their needs candidly, support each other and unite, and this needs to be done behind closed doors.
People want to be around people that make them feel good, so if Kieran either has his own insecurities and/or feels like Katie makes him feel not good enough, he will be withdrawing more and more into himself if he feels like he has no one to talk to. I imagine that he is feeling quite lonely right now. Katie’s outlet is to publically talk about their sex life and her distrust in her talks, interviews and books, however he has no outlet for his feelings. Every time Katie talks about Kieran’s infidelity, she relives, reaffirms it and this keeps the anger alive and very much in the present.
The problem is to move forwards she has to fully and wholly forgive him and let go, and she’s not ready to do that yet, and may never be ready to.
True forgiveness is key, combined with compassion and love. I really wish them both the very best.
In my opinion what is often missed when we talk about bullying and awareness is what the root cause of the bullying is. The focus is always on the victim and not on the bully. It’s so important for us to look at why bullies bully if we are to look at dealing with the problem effectively. Bullies don’t need excluding and punishing, they need someone to show them compassion and to really look at the reasons why they are doing it, which is usually low self esteem, insecurity and sometimes behavior modeled and picked up from home. It’s a deflection of what’s going on in their life to outwardly pick on and bully another person. The bully wants the other person to feel what they perhaps unconsciously feel themselves; that they don’t fit in, are not good enough, not acceptable as they are, to name but a few reasons.
I’m not saying we should accept their behaviour, I am saying we should try and deal with the cause of their behaviour through counseling and support.
In this video I talk about how I have been on both sides of the fence I’ve been bullied physically and mentally and I’ve bullied verbally. Let us not forget that this is equally as damaging as physical bullying. Bullying and name-calling is never ok. To call someone a name with the intent of insulting or embarrassing someone is a sign of ignorance and lack of empathy.
One of my favourite sayings seems apt right now. Everyone you meet is fighting their own battle. Be kind always. Don’t hate bullies; give them love as you don’t know what is going on in their lives. Help them understand themselves, their behaviour and give them the support to work to change it so they make different choices moving forwards and learn to treat people with respect.
I genuinely want to thank my bullies as I feel they made me the strong woman that I am today. However that is not a green light to say that bullying is O.K.! For some people being a victim of bullying can have fatal consequences and some people not so strong can end up taking their own life. This is why it is so important to deal with both sides with equal compassion and love.
Does anyone agree or have any comments they would like to share?
Last week I unleashed my new talk on Nottingham City’s Women’s Institute ladies. It was their most successful night of the year so far with a record turn out of over 30 ladies, of all ages from 21 to 70! They were literally queuing out of the door.
There’s a misconception that all the Women’s Institute do is make jam and cakes and drink tea. I can assure you this wasn’t the case; whilst we did have a delicious array of cakes, we also quaffed boozy Cosmopolitans whilst I talked about sex: losing my virginity, masturbation, orgasm and my decade as an escort!
The W.I. are very supportive of sex workers, which goes to show what an open minded bunch of women they really are.
I wanted to create a talk to deliver in synergy with the message of my new book. Which is to empower women and make them feel good about their sexuality, feel like they are doing the right things in the bedroom, whilst encouraging them to try new things in a way that’s accessible to all women, not just the ones who are super confident.
From the feedback I got I nailed it! I just need to decide what to call my talk. Any ideas?
I’m going to be bringing you a series of videos where I explore sexuality and different kinks by some of the countries leading experts in sexuality and kink, and here I introduce you to my first.
At Sexhibition in Manchester I experienced one of Jack the Whippers bondage classes, and it certainly was an eye opener. His knotting skills were exemporary, and he embodied the artistry of Japanese rope bondage. As a fellow martial artist I respected his skill and assertiveness and he tied me up good and proper like a hog roast! You will see the care he takes with every line of rope. There are no twists no rope is out of line, the symmetry was pleasing to the eye and although i couldn’t move a micro milimeter I felt secure and packaged neatly. The rope gave me a feeling of comfort, almost like I was being hugged. I felt safe.
Bondage might seem weird or extreme to some people however there is something exciting and erotic about being tied. It gives you the opportunity to explore boundaries, create anticipation, explore your submissive or dominant side (which must only be done between people who respect each other and trust implicitly). Bondage is a unique and powerful experience that takes sex and intimacy to a whole new level. It opens up a plethora of possibilities for sensual exploration both emotional and imaginative.
There are still people that feel a level of guilt or shame around sex and being tied up is one way to explore relinquishing the guilt, by being tied up. The knots and rope can be used in a sensual way to create friction on nipples, around the vagina, balls and perineum, add in a vibrator and the vibrations will travel down the rope for a unique sensation.
I hope you enjoy the video demo, if you do please like, share and subscribe, there’s more coming very soon!
If you want to try out some mild bondage with ‘tie and tease’ just bring an element of restriction into play with either cuffs, restraints and/or blindfolds then check out my boutique for a few ides to get you started. If you have any questions about the products don’t hesitate to ask 🙂